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3/22/08

Bye- Bye Belly!

As I sit to write this I am 11 days away from surgery.  I have held up my end of the bargain, lost the required amount of weight and OH BOY can I feel it.

 I have been off of my pain meds for just over a week, this is so that I can have an optimal anesthesia experience and not need a “deeper” sedation and I can feel every single pound of redundant flesh that is hanging around my mid section. From between my shoulder blades to my tailbone and yes even my knees are aching and pinching and stabbing, but I have my eye on the prize and am doing my very best to handle it with grace.

 I went to visit some friends of mine yesterday that I will not be seeing again until sometime after I’ve been sliced and diced and when I walked in the door, took my coat off and went to the kitchen my GF nearly dropped dead when she saw me. She told me I could stop losing any second now; it made me smile because it just affirmed what I knew was going on. It always feels good to know that someone is noticing, but really, all in all, I’m actually a little concerned with how EASY it was to drop the pounds this time. I am sort of hoping that I continue to lose at least another 20 post surgery and as long as I keep doing what I have been doing with my diet I don’t see why that wouldn’t be the case.

People are still asking me the silliest of things…like

Are you nervous yet? Nope not nervous… anxious is more the word. I have a world renowned plastic surgeon that is just as cocky as the year is long because he knows that he is good at what he does and has assured me that I am going to look AWESOME on the other side of this operation. He has some 35 years experience, pioneered a great many procedures, gets referrals from all over the world and is blatant about the fact that in all of his years of breast reconstruction he has never lost a nipple to necrosis or blood supply death and in his exact words, “You WILL NOT be the one to break my streak.”

I think it’s hard for some people to accept that I am not nervous, but I am truly, truly not. I am a believer in all things magic, the man that is about to reshape my body is nothing less than a magician with special skill, why would I be nervous putting my all into the hands of skill and knowing that even if the outcome isn’t 100% of what he has planned for me I am going to be at least 100% better than I am right now as I write this. How can one be nervous over such a win-win situation?

Oh and I do feel blessed. I am blessed because the first plastic surgeon I consulted with was a complete asshole. If he had not been I would never have found my current plastic surgeon and I truly feel that the Goddess showered me through this lesson with love because I could not ask for a more skilled or talented surgeon to be on my side than the one I have now.

I am someone who lives her life big on gratitude. I am thankful for the rays of sunshine that come into my life and I even do my very best to turn negatives into some kind of positive by finding the lessons in each. It’s not that hard to do.
I am so very thankful that this man, this skilled surgeon with healing hands decided to live his life in Canada and continue to do public service work through our socialized health care system and I am so very thankful that he saw the hard work that I have done for me and that he told me that not only was I worthy of having the body that pregnancy and weight gain robbed me of, but told me because I have done such a good job of taking care of me in the past little while that I am not even going to know what to do with the me on the other side of the operation.

I will never be a supermodel, and that’s not what this surgery is about, this surgery is about a woman who has had some severely hard knocks in her life; most of which most people don’t know about because I refuse to live in the past or in the land of what if, but nonetheless this surgery is about THAT woman finding her grace and finding her way back to what it is that she knows she has always been.

I am prepared, I have done my homework, I have taken every single pre-surgical precaution that I should take. I am eating well, I am doing what exercise I can, I have an aftercare plan in place, I am ready, OH LORD I am SOOOO ready that all that is left to do is pack my bag and hurry up and wait.

I know that as I heal I could have a bumpy ride… quite literally NOTHING I currently have in my closet is going to fit me EVER, EVER, EVER again. There will be some emotional roller coasters as I try to figure out exactly what my “style” is going to be when I get back to buying clothes. For the first time in my whole life I will be shopping for tops that FIT me everywhere and not just fit me in a manner that accommodates my boobs; for the first time I will be buying pants that accentuate my curves and don’t have to accommodate for a belly pannus in the meantime.

Yeah, I think the only thing I’m nervous about is not even knowing where to begin once I can go clothes and bra shopping in the after.

For the first time in a long, long time, my hair is long, my skin is clear, my hope is at 1000% and I am OH SO READY…

Bring…it…on!

 

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DarkDivah (RaziCichlid)What to say? What to say?
I've been kicking around Delphi since  ohhh about 1999.
I'm an aspiring author and all around nut-job.
I'm a Pagan and my path is wherever my feet happen to take me.
I'm just a little light, just a little dark and a whole lot opinionated.
I'm a free thinker and have no idea whether or not anything I say will be relevant to anyone other than me, but I'm going to say it anyhow.
You can steal my sunshine, but you can't have my thunder.
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