October 11 is National Coming Out Day. HRC has a number of useful resources, including their newly updated resource guide (in .pdf format) as well as books and links. Stay tuned for more, soon.
As part of their previous coming out project, they published my story. Telling your own story is a good way to celebrate Coming Out Day. For why it is important to tell be out, I'm reprinting (and slightly updating) one of my prevous articles, here...
Come Out Loud
The two questions I get most are, "Why do you feel you need to announce your sexuality; isn't that a private matter?" and "Okay, the issue is important to you, but why should it be important to me? I'm straight, and there are bigger issues (terrorism, the economy, etc)
Why do you feel you need to announce your sexuality?
What I'm trying to say is that you cannot sit this out. This is not an optional issue, this is a moral imperative. People are being hurt, lives are being destroyed, children are being separated from their parents, jobs are being lost, politicians are being intimidated, policy is being distorted, soldiers are dying; all because of a deeply ingrained, pervasive prejudice that is expressed savagely by the radical right, and quietly and through turning a blind eye by the silent majority. You cannot be indifferent to the increasing homophobia in our country; you cannot ignore the use of queer-bashing language by our president and by members of the Senate and look me in the eye and say you care about me, or that you care about equality.