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I am a wife, mother of three young men, artist, teacher, friend, daughter, sister, grandaughter (thankfully not yet a grandmother), and doer of any number of weird  and wonderful jobs that need doing.


Jul 5, 2009 07:09

Snakes and Crackers

I’m home, at least for a while.  Evan is all graduated…Rhys is still working on it.  I had a wonderful time at the Bead and Button Show in Milwaukee, in June.  I learned new techniques, honed some previously learned techniques, met up with old friends, made some new ones, and did some shopping…what’s not to love about a week like that?  After the Show, I was off to Colorado to see my Grandma, Aunt Pete, Uncle Ben and Aunt Judy, and Adam.  What a wonderful visit.  I love spending time with my Grandma.  It seems we never run out of things to talk about.  It’s like having a week long slumber party…except we don’t stay up all night.  It is interesting to talk to one’s grandmother about life, love, relationships, good times and hard times.  I have spent a lot of time with my grandmother over the course of my life, but I have learned more about her and her life during the two weeks I have spent with her the last two summers than in all the time before that. I wish I had been able to record everything she told me, because I can’t remember all of the stories.  And there are a lot!  She has an amazing memory.   I heard about her growing up and little tidbits about Granddad.  I listened to stories about some of the struggles she went through as a young wife and mother.  I got to hear about the snake that ate my mom’s little red sandals…at least that was Mom’s story.  I learned what it takes to make a marriage last 75 years.  I listened to stories about some of the great trips they went on.  I relived the camping trips in the National forests and some of the wild, off-road gallivanting of my youth.  What great fun!   I know there are a ton more stories for her to tell, and I can’t wait until next year, when I will get to hear them. 

It was also wonderful to see my aunts and uncle.  I have a great family!  Aunt Pete just keeps hupomeno-ing (keeps on keeping on).  She amazes me with her drive.  Aunt Judy made some of the most amazing crackers!  I don’t think there is anything she makes that isn’t good.  I made some of them for Eric’s dad.  He said, “I’ve been getting into them when you aren’t looking.”  When I went to get some, I found that he had been getting into them…to the “all gone” stage.  I made him some more before I left.  Adam looked great.  I enjoyed spending some time with him.  It is neat to see the changes a year makes in attitudes and maturity of a young man.

Over the last year, I have gotten spend a lot of time one-on –one with Rhys.  It has been great.  I am thankful that I have gotten to know him as a person, in a way, separate from him as my son.  I have a month now with Evan, and I hope to be able to know him in the same way. 

 
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